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June 2026 Newsletter: Personal Growth in Driven by Relocation

  • Writer: Judy Buchnick
    Judy Buchnick
  • Jun 22
  • 7 min read
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There is something profoundly powerful, yet occasionally disorienting, about the sensation of being "new" somewhere. Not "new" in a negative sense, but rather like a blank canvas awaiting its first brushstrokes. Anyone who has experienced relocation understands this feeling intimately: on one hand, a deep yearning for the familiar for the closeness of family, and for the language you breathe and inhabit without a second thought. On the other hand, and often to one’s complete surprise, a sense of liberation surfaces, one that is difficult to put into words.

When the familiar environment is gone and the social network built over years is an ocean away, a temporary void is created a space that gradually begins to fill again. It is precisely within this space that the greatest opportunities reside. Suddenly, you are permitted to ask the questions you once brushed aside and moved past. This is the moment to leverage the transition whether to cultivate new hobbies, recalibrate your career, or simply discover who you are outside of the labels imposed by your previous environment. This disconnection is not merely a challenge; it is an invitation to press the reset button and write an entirely new chapter.

The first step toward that new chapter is the capacity to genuinely feel integrated into your surroundings. For many, the most significant barrier is language. It is not just a matter of speaking English, but of deciphering the codes, expressions, and cultural nuances that accompany every conversation, meeting, and daily interaction. 

Over the years, I have met many individuals who shared in our initial conversations: "Judy, I am too old to learn a language all over again," or "Come on, I am past that age." Yet the truth remains: English is far more than "just a language." It is a fresh perspective. It is the very foundation and the most powerful tool for building the next iteration of yourself. When we approach English with curiosity rather than apprehension, every daily interaction with American culture from casual small talk at the supermarket checkout to networking at the office is transformed from an obstacle into a springboard for self-confidence. Language possesses the power not only to describe who we are today, but to shape who we can become tomorrow.

Consider the decision to embrace a new hobby whether it is following NBA games at a neighborhood bar or joining a local sports community. Suddenly, English is no longer a dry framework of grammatical rules; it becomes the code that allows you to experience the moment fully. It is knowing how to effortlessly toss in a comment about last night’s New York Knicks game while waiting in line for coffee, understanding the slang that elevates small talk into a genuine connection, or simply sharing a laugh over local inside jokes. When language ceases to be something you must constantly "translate in your head," it becomes your natural passport into the community.

This holds even greater truth when you decide to pivot your career or strike out on your own. In the American business landscape, your expertise is measured not only by your capabilities, but by how effectively you communicate them. This is reflected in the ability to read subtle nuances, understanding that when a colleague notes, "That's an interesting approach," they may be gently signaling it is time to rethink the strategy. It is knowing how to utilize indirect phrasing to deliver constructive feedback diplomatically, understanding when and how to deploy softening language, and crafting emails that project professionalism, warmth, and confidence simultaneously. Once you feel comfortable inhabiting the language as it naturally flows, those cultural codes cease to feel intimidating or exhausting they simply become second nature.

This time, I invite you to leave behind the baggage, the roles, and the fixed perceptions you brought or will bring with you in your suitcase from home. This move represents your opportunity to break free from the apprehension surrounding a new language or the unfamiliarity of American culture, and to begin thinking expansively about the change you truly desire and are fully capable of making in your life. Let us view relocation not merely as a temporary period of adjustment, but as an open door to new possibilities waiting for you the moment you dare to redefine yourself.

Yours,

Judy



Spotlight Corner

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For this edition's spotlight, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Tanya Yakir, who made the big move to the U.S. about two years ago. Back in Israel, Tanya ran a thriving clinic, which she chose to close when she relocated. Since then, she has built a beautiful new practice from the ground up right in Cresskill, New Jersey, where she offers specialized body treatments and women’s wellness services to the local community. Tanya initially reached out to our team to help her take her English to the next level and truly find her voice here.

Tell us a little about yourself - and why you decided to elevate your English.

“We relocated to the U.S. in July 2024 for my husband’s career. Soon after, I opened a body therapy clinic, initially serving primarily the local Israeli community. As my client base expanded to include more Americans, I discovered that despite occasional mistakes, my English was actually stronger than I had realized. However, I wanted more. I wanted to project total professionalism, explain complex treatments with absolute confidence, and naturally find the right words during casual conversations."

As a therapist, do you see a connection between language fluency, confidence, and healing?

"Absolutely. Engaging in deep, meaningful conversation requires a high level of confidence. Over time, I have realized that human pain transcends language. When we are able to speak openly about topics once considered taboo, it facilitates immense healing for both the body and the soul. Witnessing the profound impact this has on my clients provides me with the continuous motivation to keep refining my language skills." 

In our initial preparation, you mentioned that it was essential for you to find an instructor with whom you could discuss deeply personal and sensitive topics. Why was that so important to you?

"My clinic specializes in women’s health encompassing pregnancy, childbirth, fertility, and menopause. It was critical for me to partner with an instructor who is entirely comfortable navigating these sensitive subjects, helping me cultivate the precise language necessary to ensure my clients feel completely safe, understood, and at ease."

How has the experience of working with Christine been, and how does she support your language development?

"Christine is simply wonderful and brings an incredibly rich life experience to our sessions. Beyond technical language corrections, such as tenses and grammar, she introduces me to the American mindset. She helps me fine-tune cultural nuances and effectively adapt to the local market. Those are the distinct elements that are incredibly challenging to master on your own as an immigrant."

Do you feel a greater sense of freedom in English today, and how does that connect to your overall confidence?

"Acquiring a language on its own may not inherently require confidence, but actively engaging in a conversation absolutely does both in terms of the language itself and the subject matter being discussed. Today, I feel vastly more liberated to express myself in English, even while recognizing that I still have a journey ahead of me."

And to finish- what is one English word that best captures this entire process for you?

"The word buttock! This process is full of amusing and embarrassing moments, and that is completely part of the experience."

Tanya, thank you so much for your time and we wish you the absolute best of luck with the clinic!

Tanya's tip for anyone hesitant to speak English due to the fear of making mistakes:

"Just start speaking! The fear exists primarily in our heads, and with consistent practice, it becomes completely natural. Do not wait for tomorrow - begin today. It is an extraordinary journey of self-discovery and confidence-building, particularly for anyone navigating or working within an English-speaking environment."



What We Have Been Up To This Quarter

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The past quarter has been remarkably active, featuring five complimentary sessions hosted over the last three months.

  • In April, instructor Christine led two engaging workshops specifically tailored for Israelis residing in the United States, guiding several dozens of participants in strengthening their spoken English confidence and refining their pronunciation.

  • In May, we hosted two specialized sessions for approximately 100 families preparing for relocation to the United States. The first session offered an invaluable introduction to the American educational system, led by instructor Telly. In the second session, parents and students, many of whom are entering middle or high school this coming September - explored the nuances of U.S. mathematics education with instructor Dave.

  • In June, we celebrated our very first in-person meetup in Tel Aviv, designed to help relocating families address their questions and concerns through a dynamic, interactive Q&A format. We would like to take this opportunity to extend our sincere gratitude to EBA & Co. Consulting Services for generously hosting this event.

Beyond our live sessions, we also published a featured article this quarter titled "Shop Till You Drop-Shopping Smart in the USA" which explores how American English shapes the retail ecosystem. It is an essential read for anyone planning a visit or a permanent move to the United States.

As always, we invite you to explore our blog, where we regularly publish insights on language acquisition, cultural adaptation, and relocation strategies.



Looking Ahead: What's Coming Up Next Quarter

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This summer promises to be exceptionally vibrant, with programming spanning both Israel and the United States.

Registration is officially open for our Soft Landing Workshops, taking place throughout July and August. Designed to ensure a seamless cultural and linguistic transition, this year's workshops will be hosted across four select locations:

  • Cooper City / Hollywood, Florida - July 27-31

  • Austin, Texas - August 3-7

  • Brookline, Massachusetts - August 17-21

  • Tenafly, New Jersey - August 24-28

If these workshops are relevant to your journey or to someone in your network we invite you to follow the link below for full details and registration 


Summer Programming in Israel

For our study groups in Israel, we have developed dedicated Summer English Bootcamp sessions designed to help children overcome language barriers through immersive, experiential learning. Our summer programming is thoughtfully structured to accommodate students at all proficiency levels from those taking their very first steps in the language to advanced students already crafting sophisticated essays and personal narratives.

To learn more or to secure a spot for your child, you are welcome to connect with Yaara, our program coordinator, by clicking the link below.

As always, I would love to hear from you. If there are specific topics or cultural nuances you would like us to address in future editions or workshops, please do not hesitate to reach out.


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